Sunday, November 24, 2019

My Connection to Play


  

A day at the beach was the best thing ever. Hours of playing in the sand and salty beach water. Trying to catch seashells but waves knock you down and you have to get up and try again. My sister and I pretending to be mermaids because we grew up on all things Disney. Some of the best days of my life were playing as a child.

My sister and I had the best imaginations ever, even though we had a good number of toys we were just creative. We played with the big boxes our toys came in instead of the toys. We would go outside with old aluminum pans and make mud pies for our mom. We would bang on the washing machine as if it were drums and sing creating our own band. We used sheets and pillows and built forts with our dad. Sometimes toys weren’t needed to play just creativity. 


I try to implement the same kind of creativity with the children I work with by providing less at times to see what children will do. Sometimes I feel this takes away from the overwhelming choices of which toy should I play with. I encourage children to be creative like my parents did with my sister and me. Five essentials to play are allow children to make their own choices, children are intrinsically motivated, children become immersed in the moment, play is spontaneous not scripted, and play is enjoyable (NAEYC, 2009).



References
Nell, M. & Drew, W. (2009). Five Essentials to Meaningful Play. Retrieved from https://www.naeyc.org/our-work/families/five-essentials-meaningful-play

Sunday, November 10, 2019

Relationship Reflection


Relationships are important to me because we cannot do life alone. We come across people everyday and life becomes more enjoyable sharing experiences with others. I have developed a great relationship with one of my coteachers. I think she is amazing. She shares so much wisdom with me and she pushes me to keep going when I’m going through a hard time. She feels like one of my family members. My family always has my back even when going through differences because the love we have for one another is what helps us agree to disagree even if it takes some time. Two of my closest friends who keep me grounded and I have known them for 14 plus years. I value people that come into my life.
Challenges in maintaining or developing relationships is change. Change is inevitable but change can be good we just have to keep the lines of communication open and give people time to understand. Fear can also be a challenge. Through past experiences with certain relationships it often takes me a while to open up and express myself to others. The fear of being judge or even feeling inadequate has caused some of my relationships to fail. I have learned to reflect on my personal experiences to understand my actions.